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Stressful and Sad Day - August 8th
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<blockquote data-quote="busywend" data-source="post: 64483" data-attributes="member: 391"><p>3 years. 3 years and you are still so devistated as if it just happened last month. I understand your world was turned upside down. Life as you knew it was over. But, you have never started the new life. Yes, you were forced into the new life and it is not the life you want - but right now you have no life. Not the old and not a new one either. </p><p></p><p>I wish I could take you out today. We would go do something really silly. </p><p></p><p>It is OK to be sad, but start the new life!!! You have to! Nothing in this life is guaranteed to us. That is a life lesson you learned the hard way - for sure. </p><p></p><p>It could happen to any one of us. Things happen. That is why you have to appreciate life and move on so you can be happy. You CAN and WILL be happy without your husband. Find the strength to admit that to yourself. Repeat it over and over again in your head. Heck, out loud if it helps more than inside your head. </p><p></p><p>You do deserve so much better than this. It would be one thing if he wanted to make things better and work on the marriage - but he does not and you can not force him to. You need to figure out what you want to do now. What will help you to move on. </p><p></p><p></p><p>Here are some flowers to cheer you up today.</p><p> :flower: :flower: :flower: :flower: :flower: :flower:</p><p></p><p>P.S. - if this sounded harsh, I did not mean it to be. Sometimes we never know how our posts will be read. HUGS!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="busywend, post: 64483, member: 391"] 3 years. 3 years and you are still so devistated as if it just happened last month. I understand your world was turned upside down. Life as you knew it was over. But, you have never started the new life. Yes, you were forced into the new life and it is not the life you want - but right now you have no life. Not the old and not a new one either. I wish I could take you out today. We would go do something really silly. It is OK to be sad, but start the new life!!! You have to! Nothing in this life is guaranteed to us. That is a life lesson you learned the hard way - for sure. It could happen to any one of us. Things happen. That is why you have to appreciate life and move on so you can be happy. You CAN and WILL be happy without your husband. Find the strength to admit that to yourself. Repeat it over and over again in your head. Heck, out loud if it helps more than inside your head. You do deserve so much better than this. It would be one thing if he wanted to make things better and work on the marriage - but he does not and you can not force him to. You need to figure out what you want to do now. What will help you to move on. Here are some flowers to cheer you up today. [img]:flower:[/img] [img]:flower:[/img] [img]:flower:[/img] [img]:flower:[/img] [img]:flower:[/img] [img]:flower:[/img] P.S. - if this sounded harsh, I did not mean it to be. Sometimes we never know how our posts will be read. HUGS! [/QUOTE]
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