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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 706755" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>There is no way I would allow her to live with me and granddaughter again. Ever. She is an adult drug addict who has not gotten help and has made horrible choices. She's young but most young adults her age are in college, working full time or serving our country, not in jail. She isn't fit to raise that four year old and giving her another chance is the same as throwing your granddaughter to the dogs.</p><p></p><p>Who cares what anyone else says? Don't talk to them. THEY can take her in if they feel so generous.</p><p></p><p>Pick your granddaughter. Your daughter needs years of sobriety and therapy before she MAY be able to be trusted. She can choose to get help and use government resources in the meantime. in my opinion it is sane not to bring her back and insane to do so. Your grand may never recover if she had to deal with the mother again. What if mom takes her somewhere unsafe and she is raped? She is a baby. She needs protection.</p><p></p><p>Your family is being illogical. Perhaps you need to detach from them and their toxic advice.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 706755, member: 1550"] There is no way I would allow her to live with me and granddaughter again. Ever. She is an adult drug addict who has not gotten help and has made horrible choices. She's young but most young adults her age are in college, working full time or serving our country, not in jail. She isn't fit to raise that four year old and giving her another chance is the same as throwing your granddaughter to the dogs. Who cares what anyone else says? Don't talk to them. THEY can take her in if they feel so generous. Pick your granddaughter. Your daughter needs years of sobriety and therapy before she MAY be able to be trusted. She can choose to get help and use government resources in the meantime. in my opinion it is sane not to bring her back and insane to do so. Your grand may never recover if she had to deal with the mother again. What if mom takes her somewhere unsafe and she is raped? She is a baby. She needs protection. Your family is being illogical. Perhaps you need to detach from them and their toxic advice. [/QUOTE]
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