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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 706784" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Make double sure that the court knows that she will NOT live with you while she is doing her probation. She will have to give them an address where she will live in order to be released, and if she gives your address then you will have to agree to it. If they call and ask you, just say NO. I think that is likely a big part of how she is getting a deal, having a permanent address, somewhere stable that she can go to in order to live during her probation. She is likely counting on you not being able to say no to her and you are going to have to be able to say no in order to keep your granddaughter safe and yourself safe. I can see how this will be hard for you, but it is one of the less fun parts of parenting. But you have already had to take on parenting her child. She can find someone else to be her permanent address for parole/probation. Especially as this would put her child in danger. Gang ties don't just go away.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 706784, member: 1233"] Make double sure that the court knows that she will NOT live with you while she is doing her probation. She will have to give them an address where she will live in order to be released, and if she gives your address then you will have to agree to it. If they call and ask you, just say NO. I think that is likely a big part of how she is getting a deal, having a permanent address, somewhere stable that she can go to in order to live during her probation. She is likely counting on you not being able to say no to her and you are going to have to be able to say no in order to keep your granddaughter safe and yourself safe. I can see how this will be hard for you, but it is one of the less fun parts of parenting. But you have already had to take on parenting her child. She can find someone else to be her permanent address for parole/probation. Especially as this would put her child in danger. Gang ties don't just go away. [/QUOTE]
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