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<blockquote data-quote="GuideMe" data-source="post: 640772" data-attributes="member: 18233"><p>This is all very interesting nzmum. I have read every word that you have written with deep thought. I am with you on something is going on with your daughter, but what? This is very difficult. She has some signs of aspergers/autism , but then doesn't. You're right, a little bit of everything, but not enough for one thing. Does she have headaches by any chance? I have had migraines from a very young age and I would avoid lights and sounds because they could trigger a migraine. Also, she could have misophonia which is someone who just hates certain types of sounds and noises. I wouldn't be too worried about her not being able to peddle a bike yet. If she can't peddle one by age 8, then I would be very concerned.</p><p></p><p>Right now, what I am most worried of is her anger and rages. That must be absolutely terrible and horrifying for her to feel and you to watch, especially at such a young age. Have you ruled out her being abused physically or sexually? This kind of behavior, if not psychological, <strong><em><u>is screaming abuse of some kind.</u></em></strong> I am sure you have thought about it of course, but you can never be too sure. How many parents have we heard say "we had no idea our child was being abused, we thought we protected our child so much, how could this have happened?". You have to take a look around again, even at people who you would even hate to have to look at such as your own husband, relatives on both sides, the little neighbor boy/girl down the street, the cousin, day care workers, so on and so forth. I don't want to scare you or cause you paranoia, but it doesn't hurt to be aware of these things. It's just something to consider. We live in a world where 1 in 4 girls are sexually abused and 80% of the time, by someone they know. So that's why we all have to take it into heavy consideration when we see this type of behavior.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="GuideMe, post: 640772, member: 18233"] This is all very interesting nzmum. I have read every word that you have written with deep thought. I am with you on something is going on with your daughter, but what? This is very difficult. She has some signs of aspergers/autism , but then doesn't. You're right, a little bit of everything, but not enough for one thing. Does she have headaches by any chance? I have had migraines from a very young age and I would avoid lights and sounds because they could trigger a migraine. Also, she could have misophonia which is someone who just hates certain types of sounds and noises. I wouldn't be too worried about her not being able to peddle a bike yet. If she can't peddle one by age 8, then I would be very concerned. Right now, what I am most worried of is her anger and rages. That must be absolutely terrible and horrifying for her to feel and you to watch, especially at such a young age. Have you ruled out her being abused physically or sexually? This kind of behavior, if not psychological, [B][I][U]is screaming abuse of some kind.[/U][/I][/B] I am sure you have thought about it of course, but you can never be too sure. How many parents have we heard say "we had no idea our child was being abused, we thought we protected our child so much, how could this have happened?". You have to take a look around again, even at people who you would even hate to have to look at such as your own husband, relatives on both sides, the little neighbor boy/girl down the street, the cousin, day care workers, so on and so forth. I don't want to scare you or cause you paranoia, but it doesn't hurt to be aware of these things. It's just something to consider. We live in a world where 1 in 4 girls are sexually abused and 80% of the time, by someone they know. So that's why we all have to take it into heavy consideration when we see this type of behavior. [/QUOTE]
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