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Struggling with my 4 year olds uncontrollable violent rage
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<blockquote data-quote="nzmum" data-source="post: 640781" data-attributes="member: 18577"><p>Hello, thanks for your suggestions but i can sure you she is not being abused, the only people she is ever alone with are my mother who is the most doting grandparent you can imagine and would never hurt her , and my husband who is a fantastic father , i have suffered anxiety about leaving her with other people due to some large earthquakes that happened in our city ( christchurch) where a lot of people were hurt and killed when buildings collapsed ( i was pregnant with her at the time )so i dont really leave her with anyone but my mother and my husband as i always worry there could be another earthquake ,although we do spend a lot of time with extended family i am always there, she is also not the kind of child who would put up with that, she is very vocal when she doesn't like something and impossible to manipulate ,she does not hesitate at all to tell you if she doesn't like something.Her rage has only been a real concern this year, and her tantrums have only just started being over being over being told she can't do something by us, previously they were mostly over things like getting dirty accidentally, or not being able to find something she is looking for or general little things that cause her anxiety like a popped balloon, she would have major meltdown over finding a popped balloon.Also she has had odd behaviours since birth, at 6 weeks old i moved her from her capsule to a rear facing convertible carseat and she screamed the entire drive for the first few times she went in it, because it was different, the same with moving from a bassinet to a crib ( we call them cots) at 3 months, when we moved into this house a year ago it took her a month to start sleeping here, and she has the most beautiful bedroom all decorated for her.She just can not cope with change at all.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="nzmum, post: 640781, member: 18577"] Hello, thanks for your suggestions but i can sure you she is not being abused, the only people she is ever alone with are my mother who is the most doting grandparent you can imagine and would never hurt her , and my husband who is a fantastic father , i have suffered anxiety about leaving her with other people due to some large earthquakes that happened in our city ( christchurch) where a lot of people were hurt and killed when buildings collapsed ( i was pregnant with her at the time )so i dont really leave her with anyone but my mother and my husband as i always worry there could be another earthquake ,although we do spend a lot of time with extended family i am always there, she is also not the kind of child who would put up with that, she is very vocal when she doesn't like something and impossible to manipulate ,she does not hesitate at all to tell you if she doesn't like something.Her rage has only been a real concern this year, and her tantrums have only just started being over being over being told she can't do something by us, previously they were mostly over things like getting dirty accidentally, or not being able to find something she is looking for or general little things that cause her anxiety like a popped balloon, she would have major meltdown over finding a popped balloon.Also she has had odd behaviours since birth, at 6 weeks old i moved her from her capsule to a rear facing convertible carseat and she screamed the entire drive for the first few times she went in it, because it was different, the same with moving from a bassinet to a crib ( we call them cots) at 3 months, when we moved into this house a year ago it took her a month to start sleeping here, and she has the most beautiful bedroom all decorated for her.She just can not cope with change at all. [/QUOTE]
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