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<blockquote data-quote="dstc_99" data-source="post: 671168" data-attributes="member: 15473"><p>It is difficult to separate from the FOO. Especially when you see your child doing the things their bio parent did. Tay has a tendency to take no responsibility for the messes she makes in her life. Her bio dad was the same. I haven't seen the man in 20 years and have only spoken to him for about 1 hour in all that time. The last conversation was one where he ended the call after having a fender bender and said he would call back. Lets just say I am not holding my breath. That was 2 years ago. In those two years he has had internet and possibly phone conversations with Tay but has not seen her. He isn't invited to the wedding.</p><p></p><p>It is hard not to draw the connections. I love Tay to death but to this day she doesn't take responsibility for her actions and that is something her bio dad was also very bad about. </p><p></p><p>As for the overdose on Trazadone you have my sympathies. Tay used to choke herself. Don't be surprised if your daughter doesn't have much sympathy for the trauma it causes you. Also don't be surprised if the doctors don't take it nearly as seriously as you do. Their favorite question is "where you trying to kill yourself." If you daughter is smart the answer is going to be no and they will not hold her. Tay never seemed to realize that choking yourself was a big deal. She treated it more like I was stupid for overreacting.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="dstc_99, post: 671168, member: 15473"] It is difficult to separate from the FOO. Especially when you see your child doing the things their bio parent did. Tay has a tendency to take no responsibility for the messes she makes in her life. Her bio dad was the same. I haven't seen the man in 20 years and have only spoken to him for about 1 hour in all that time. The last conversation was one where he ended the call after having a fender bender and said he would call back. Lets just say I am not holding my breath. That was 2 years ago. In those two years he has had internet and possibly phone conversations with Tay but has not seen her. He isn't invited to the wedding. It is hard not to draw the connections. I love Tay to death but to this day she doesn't take responsibility for her actions and that is something her bio dad was also very bad about. As for the overdose on Trazadone you have my sympathies. Tay used to choke herself. Don't be surprised if your daughter doesn't have much sympathy for the trauma it causes you. Also don't be surprised if the doctors don't take it nearly as seriously as you do. Their favorite question is "where you trying to kill yourself." If you daughter is smart the answer is going to be no and they will not hold her. Tay never seemed to realize that choking yourself was a big deal. She treated it more like I was stupid for overreacting. [/QUOTE]
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