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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 719471" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>Hi Sue,</p><p>I'm so sorry for the loss of your husband and now you are dealing with your ungrateful daughter.</p><p>I wish I had a magical answer for you that would make everything better. </p><p>What you're dealing with is unhealthy for everyone involved, especially your grandchildren. They are watching their mother disrespect you and are modeling that.</p><p>I'm so sorry you had a therapist that did not help you. Sometimes you need to go through a few to find a good match.</p><p>The therapist telling you to leave your own home when your daughter becomes disrespectful is so wrong. Seriously!! It's YOUR house. The only one who should be leaving is your ungrateful daughter.</p><p></p><p>While I appreciate your concern for your grandchildren you need to be concerned for your own health and mental well being. I would imagine you are still trying to grieve the loss of your husband but how can you when you are dealing with your daughter? </p><p></p><p>Your daughter is being abusive not only to you but your grandchildren. One of the best things you can do is document everything but do not let your daughter know this. If you can, when she is being abusive, record it on your phone or get a nanny cam that you can hide. Same thing when your grandchildren say ugly things to you. Others have suggested you contact CPS and I agree. If you are able to care for your grandchildren then you can start working with CPS to find out what you need to do.</p><p></p><p>I hope you seek out a new therapist. You need one that will help you create strong boundaries where your daughter is concerned. </p><p></p><p>Nothing will change until you change it.</p><p></p><p>((HUGS)) for your hurting heart.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 719471, member: 18516"] Hi Sue, I'm so sorry for the loss of your husband and now you are dealing with your ungrateful daughter. I wish I had a magical answer for you that would make everything better. What you're dealing with is unhealthy for everyone involved, especially your grandchildren. They are watching their mother disrespect you and are modeling that. I'm so sorry you had a therapist that did not help you. Sometimes you need to go through a few to find a good match. The therapist telling you to leave your own home when your daughter becomes disrespectful is so wrong. Seriously!! It's YOUR house. The only one who should be leaving is your ungrateful daughter. While I appreciate your concern for your grandchildren you need to be concerned for your own health and mental well being. I would imagine you are still trying to grieve the loss of your husband but how can you when you are dealing with your daughter? Your daughter is being abusive not only to you but your grandchildren. One of the best things you can do is document everything but do not let your daughter know this. If you can, when she is being abusive, record it on your phone or get a nanny cam that you can hide. Same thing when your grandchildren say ugly things to you. Others have suggested you contact CPS and I agree. If you are able to care for your grandchildren then you can start working with CPS to find out what you need to do. I hope you seek out a new therapist. You need one that will help you create strong boundaries where your daughter is concerned. Nothing will change until you change it. ((HUGS)) for your hurting heart. [/QUOTE]
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