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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 759018" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>Hi there. I am sorry about the calls. I used to get them too.</p><p></p><p>I finally told everyone very firmly that I don't want to know. If they continued to call, I repeated it. There were a few who tried to shame me, but that was their problem if they did not understand. I was in therapy and I knew there was nothing I could or should do. </p><p></p><p>You could try what I did. Some people I felt were trying only to guilt me and I eventually came to feel that they were the ones who were wrong. After that I was able to be more firm. The other ones I just told to help if they wanted to help Kay, but that we were not anymore. I felt guilty and bad sometimes but the calls came less often and my husband and I became more at peace.</p><p></p><p>Kay is still in Arizona, per a cousin who is friends with her on FB. She never calls Amy to ask about Jaden. Her husband works fast food part time. They trash talk us on FB a lot but we will not look. </p><p></p><p>Prayers and love. Stay well.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 759018, member: 23706"] Hi there. I am sorry about the calls. I used to get them too. I finally told everyone very firmly that I don't want to know. If they continued to call, I repeated it. There were a few who tried to shame me, but that was their problem if they did not understand. I was in therapy and I knew there was nothing I could or should do. You could try what I did. Some people I felt were trying only to guilt me and I eventually came to feel that they were the ones who were wrong. After that I was able to be more firm. The other ones I just told to help if they wanted to help Kay, but that we were not anymore. I felt guilty and bad sometimes but the calls came less often and my husband and I became more at peace. Kay is still in Arizona, per a cousin who is friends with her on FB. She never calls Amy to ask about Jaden. Her husband works fast food part time. They trash talk us on FB a lot but we will not look. Prayers and love. Stay well. [/QUOTE]
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