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<blockquote data-quote="newstart" data-source="post: 728300" data-attributes="member: 22416"><p>Hi Tired mama, It was a successful meeting as far as all 3 of us getting on the same page and my husband telling her what needs to be done. I have had my daughter to so many therapists that I cannot even count how many. She has been diagnosed as bipolar, ADHD, and one therapist told me she was a psychopath. She also has some Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD). At this point I do not know exactly what her disorder is but it is awful. Many times I feel deep disgust around her, I am taking that disgust and moving it towards getting financially out from under her and working towards the ultimate goal of detaching lovingly.</p><p>Meaning of detachment-unfasten,disconnect, disengage, separate, uncouple,unhitch, unhook, cut off, break off. This year all of my name will be off of her accounts except the house and it will be paid off in 9 years. I have odd feelings about still being financially connected to her for 9 more years. UGH.</p><p>How can a person be highly intelligent and not figure out their finances.???? I know other people like this, well educated people that can not make it work. I have always known that it is best to live below your means and save up for the unexpected. My dad was very financially stable but my mother was a lot like my daughter, did not have a good sense on how money worked.</p><p>I have to mention that my daughter has gone to Dave Ramsey courses and has studied finances in college. We have gone to other classes on how to manage money. </p><p>Everyone that knows her tells me she is not on drugs but her mania and Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) sure do make her act like it. Some of you are probably thinking that I am in denial but I grew up around kids that were drinking and drugging. I smoked pot in the 70s, I quickly quit because my appetite was out of control and I broke out with pimples each time I smoked it. My sister use to tell me that she knew when I smoked pot because my face was pimply. I had friends that died from ODs, I have seen people shoot drugs, snort them etc so I am not blind to the drug culture.If I suspect someone is dabbling in drugs I cut all ties. I truly do not believe she does drugs or alcohol but her mania is like the worst acid trip.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="newstart, post: 728300, member: 22416"] Hi Tired mama, It was a successful meeting as far as all 3 of us getting on the same page and my husband telling her what needs to be done. I have had my daughter to so many therapists that I cannot even count how many. She has been diagnosed as bipolar, ADHD, and one therapist told me she was a psychopath. She also has some Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD). At this point I do not know exactly what her disorder is but it is awful. Many times I feel deep disgust around her, I am taking that disgust and moving it towards getting financially out from under her and working towards the ultimate goal of detaching lovingly. Meaning of detachment-unfasten,disconnect, disengage, separate, uncouple,unhitch, unhook, cut off, break off. This year all of my name will be off of her accounts except the house and it will be paid off in 9 years. I have odd feelings about still being financially connected to her for 9 more years. UGH. How can a person be highly intelligent and not figure out their finances.???? I know other people like this, well educated people that can not make it work. I have always known that it is best to live below your means and save up for the unexpected. My dad was very financially stable but my mother was a lot like my daughter, did not have a good sense on how money worked. I have to mention that my daughter has gone to Dave Ramsey courses and has studied finances in college. We have gone to other classes on how to manage money. Everyone that knows her tells me she is not on drugs but her mania and Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) sure do make her act like it. Some of you are probably thinking that I am in denial but I grew up around kids that were drinking and drugging. I smoked pot in the 70s, I quickly quit because my appetite was out of control and I broke out with pimples each time I smoked it. My sister use to tell me that she knew when I smoked pot because my face was pimply. I had friends that died from ODs, I have seen people shoot drugs, snort them etc so I am not blind to the drug culture.If I suspect someone is dabbling in drugs I cut all ties. I truly do not believe she does drugs or alcohol but her mania is like the worst acid trip. [/QUOTE]
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