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<blockquote data-quote="newstart" data-source="post: 728326" data-attributes="member: 22416"><p>Hi R0441, I think my daughter and 1/2 boyfriend were suppose to go to a free Church retreat. Several area churches put them on.</p><p>I noticed yesterday when my husband was talking to our daughter they came to a deep understanding about things. My husband completely forgave her. I have to remind him that just because she nods and acts like she is going to move forward does not mean she will. She just ripped us off a huge amount of money. Is she capable of doing it again? I will not be taking that chance. My husband told my daughter some things yesterday and I have to remind him that if she is not manic she is ok but with her mania she is a psychopath and will use any information that we give her against us.</p><p>I would love to forgive her completely but I can't because this is not my first awful rodeo with her. She can do some very horrible things. I know I can't stop her but I do have control over our finances and time spent around her. The emotional turmoil is too much for me anymore. I am totally wore out and wiped out from this latest abuse. When I stop the financial bleeding for good I can have more peace and when I let go of all the other BS that she drags us into my life will feel more like my life.</p><p></p><p>Just because there is a window of peace right now does not mean it will be there tomorrow. I know I am dealing with a person that does not have my best interest in mind. I know I am dealing with someone that truly does not care while she is manic. She does have a sweet side and she shows that sweet side enough to string me along and play with my emotions.</p><p>I know how peaceful my life became almost immediately after cutting my bipolar in laws out of my life, it was immediately. Detaching does take time and work. Glad your husband does not have filters, it seem to get stuff done faster.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="newstart, post: 728326, member: 22416"] Hi R0441, I think my daughter and 1/2 boyfriend were suppose to go to a free Church retreat. Several area churches put them on. I noticed yesterday when my husband was talking to our daughter they came to a deep understanding about things. My husband completely forgave her. I have to remind him that just because she nods and acts like she is going to move forward does not mean she will. She just ripped us off a huge amount of money. Is she capable of doing it again? I will not be taking that chance. My husband told my daughter some things yesterday and I have to remind him that if she is not manic she is ok but with her mania she is a psychopath and will use any information that we give her against us. I would love to forgive her completely but I can't because this is not my first awful rodeo with her. She can do some very horrible things. I know I can't stop her but I do have control over our finances and time spent around her. The emotional turmoil is too much for me anymore. I am totally wore out and wiped out from this latest abuse. When I stop the financial bleeding for good I can have more peace and when I let go of all the other BS that she drags us into my life will feel more like my life. Just because there is a window of peace right now does not mean it will be there tomorrow. I know I am dealing with a person that does not have my best interest in mind. I know I am dealing with someone that truly does not care while she is manic. She does have a sweet side and she shows that sweet side enough to string me along and play with my emotions. I know how peaceful my life became almost immediately after cutting my bipolar in laws out of my life, it was immediately. Detaching does take time and work. Glad your husband does not have filters, it seem to get stuff done faster. [/QUOTE]
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