After pulling into the garage tonight, I walked past the workbench toward the door . ... . . ..and saw sonnyboy's bong. I'm having an adrenalin rush. Oh goody - more disappointment. I know he's done this, don't have any idea of how much, but when it's right in your face. Last night at the Alanon Parent Meeting we were talking about being afraid of being out and someone we knew coming up to us and asking how difficult child is doing. I'm like that with my family. Almost hate to hear how well neices and nephews are doing. Can talk about easy child, but don't say much about sonnyboy. Any way having a gut reaction here. He's not home from work. Disappointed.