My 34 year old difficult child/easy child called me out of the blue yesterday and asked me if he, his daughter, and his girlfriend could move in with me. He told me that they had gotten evicted and did not have any place to go. My son is a R.N. he makes close to 45.00 an hour. I asked him why he does not just get another apt. He says he can't because he is broke. He got fired from the hospital ??????? The girlfriend does not work ??????? Things are not adding up. I told him I just could not have 3 people sitting around the house doing nothing. My son's apartment was a filthy mess. His room and bathroom growing up are were a filthy mess. He lived with his dad and turned that house into a pigsty. I started to feel guilty. I called my daughter to see if she knew what was going on. She said that he just met this girl and she is a druggie and that's why all this mess got started. I feel horrible for the 12 year old. I can't take care of her she is a difficult child and that would mean having 4 difficult children under 1 roof. I would like to help but not enable. Any suggestions would be welcome. I am trying to keep the guilt at bay.