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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 630473" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>Pasa, I would think through the taking of the grand for a while, even a short while. As you know, I am raising my grand and at 12 it was a bad time, they can take ALL our energy and you already said she is a difficult child. As you said, you have a life now, you've already raised your kids it's your time now. Let them figure it out, if you don't step in with an offer, they will find another way. Down the road if she has absolutely no where to go, then MAYBE you can offer for a SHORT time, with limits, but really, I support you continuing to be absolutely SELFISH and to continue thinking of YOU now. </p><p></p><p>Personally, I think your priorities are right on target, think of what you want and go with that.........and DON'T feel guilty, <em>go enjoy YOUR life!</em>!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 630473, member: 13542"] Pasa, I would think through the taking of the grand for a while, even a short while. As you know, I am raising my grand and at 12 it was a bad time, they can take ALL our energy and you already said she is a difficult child. As you said, you have a life now, you've already raised your kids it's your time now. Let them figure it out, if you don't step in with an offer, they will find another way. Down the road if she has absolutely no where to go, then MAYBE you can offer for a SHORT time, with limits, but really, I support you continuing to be absolutely SELFISH and to continue thinking of YOU now. Personally, I think your priorities are right on target, think of what you want and go with that.........and DON'T feel guilty, [I]go enjoy YOUR life![/I]! [/QUOTE]
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