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<blockquote data-quote="Childofmine" data-source="post: 660556" data-attributes="member: 17542"><p>We can't know their future. It won't stay the same, daze, that much we do know.</p><p></p><p>They may stumble through the rest of their lives. Yes they may. I think a lot of people stumble through their lives and can't quite make things happen for whatever reason.</p><p></p><p>So...okay. It is what it is.</p><p></p><p>But what about us? What do we do with that, if that is what is to be?</p><p></p><p>We live our own lives and maintain boundaries so we aren't in the middle of it all. I don't know about you, but I don't want to know all of the ins and outs. I am not your mommy anymore. You are a grown man with a grown man's responsibilities. </p><p></p><p>I have to have physical distance daze. I can't talk to, text or see my Difficult Child too much. If I do, I engage too much and that isn't good for him or for me. It may not ever be "normal" with them. We may always have to be guarded and think about what we do and say with them.</p><p></p><p>Or not. We can't know the future. All we can do is work on ourselves daze.</p><p></p><p>Feel what you are feeling and let some time pass. Get back to level ground and then start the work on you anew. </p><p></p><p>Read, write, meditate, make good plans for your life. </p><p></p><p>we can do this daze. </p><p></p><p>Warm hugs</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Childofmine, post: 660556, member: 17542"] We can't know their future. It won't stay the same, daze, that much we do know. They may stumble through the rest of their lives. Yes they may. I think a lot of people stumble through their lives and can't quite make things happen for whatever reason. So...okay. It is what it is. But what about us? What do we do with that, if that is what is to be? We live our own lives and maintain boundaries so we aren't in the middle of it all. I don't know about you, but I don't want to know all of the ins and outs. I am not your mommy anymore. You are a grown man with a grown man's responsibilities. I have to have physical distance daze. I can't talk to, text or see my Difficult Child too much. If I do, I engage too much and that isn't good for him or for me. It may not ever be "normal" with them. We may always have to be guarded and think about what we do and say with them. Or not. We can't know the future. All we can do is work on ourselves daze. Feel what you are feeling and let some time pass. Get back to level ground and then start the work on you anew. Read, write, meditate, make good plans for your life. we can do this daze. Warm hugs [/QUOTE]
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