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Talk about guilt--will this family ever heal?
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<blockquote data-quote="TerryJ2" data-source="post: 654338" data-attributes="member: 3419"><p>Thank you.</p><p>I texted D's mom to tell her that D supposedly gave money to difficult child and to not do that any more. I asked her to gently tell D not to do that. (I had to use the word "gently" because she's verbally abusive.)</p><p>I'll find out if D actually did give him the money when T responds.</p><p></p><p>Meanwhile, difficult child started in on me about his phone yesterday. His voice was loud. I covered my ears and said, "Did you just come home to yell at me?"</p><p>He said "No, I didn't." And walked away.</p><p>I was bound and determined not to get sucked into a conversation about the phone.</p><p></p><p>He's got to do chores at home and find a new job, to pay us back. It is so hard. Especially since he won't go to therapy.</p><p></p><p>I have not been to AlAnon for 3 yrs. I went when I moved Cousin P here, because she was addicted to oxycodone, and difficult child was on drugs. But I ran out of time. Then I joined NAMI and fell in love with-the group. Problem is, they are a half hr/45 min away and it's always on a Mon night, when I'm most tired.</p><p>I'll work something out ...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TerryJ2, post: 654338, member: 3419"] Thank you. I texted D's mom to tell her that D supposedly gave money to difficult child and to not do that any more. I asked her to gently tell D not to do that. (I had to use the word "gently" because she's verbally abusive.) I'll find out if D actually did give him the money when T responds. Meanwhile, difficult child started in on me about his phone yesterday. His voice was loud. I covered my ears and said, "Did you just come home to yell at me?" He said "No, I didn't." And walked away. I was bound and determined not to get sucked into a conversation about the phone. He's got to do chores at home and find a new job, to pay us back. It is so hard. Especially since he won't go to therapy. I have not been to AlAnon for 3 yrs. I went when I moved Cousin P here, because she was addicted to oxycodone, and difficult child was on drugs. But I ran out of time. Then I joined NAMI and fell in love with-the group. Problem is, they are a half hr/45 min away and it's always on a Mon night, when I'm most tired. I'll work something out ... [/QUOTE]
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