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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 707178" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>We understand.</p><p></p><p>But we also learned that we have no con4trol over our adult kids. We cant make them live our dreams for them. They are not us</p><p> See what happens. She may leave him. It is likely. But that doesnt mean she will then go along with your list of what you want for her. They do it their way, not our way. And we can accept it or cause alienation.</p><p></p><p>Time to maybe staRt living your life. We all have to let go at some time. I have four adult kids. I learned!!! And why are you ashamed? Your daughter is not you. And she will date who she likes. Her dream guy may not be yours.</p><p></p><p>And it might be. Its all up to her.</p><p></p><p>Hugs!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 707178, member: 1550"] We understand. But we also learned that we have no con4trol over our adult kids. We cant make them live our dreams for them. They are not us See what happens. She may leave him. It is likely. But that doesnt mean she will then go along with your list of what you want for her. They do it their way, not our way. And we can accept it or cause alienation. Time to maybe staRt living your life. We all have to let go at some time. I have four adult kids. I learned!!! And why are you ashamed? Your daughter is not you. And she will date who she likes. Her dream guy may not be yours. And it might be. Its all up to her. Hugs!! [/QUOTE]
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