I'm a victim of myself. My wife is tough on my 15 year old daughter. She's been bugging me to check the activity on her computer; I gave in and did that. Now, as my handle implies, I can't go back. In her blog on Tumblr she tells her followers she lost her virginity at 15 (so it was recently) to a guy 18. Don't know any 18 y.o. boys; she's out alot but I didn't even know she was dating. I don't think she's making it up; she also posted that she wasn't ready. She seems amazingly sad - hints at suicidal thoughts. I'm crushed and completely lost. I don't know what to do. I can't tell her I know without telling her I've completely invaded her privacy, but I can't keep this bottled up either.