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<blockquote data-quote="Billiesue" data-source="post: 729344" data-attributes="member: 21852"><p>Well I could but I feel like the last person sis and mom want to hear from is me. Me son who was living with him, (and hooked on pot), has stayed over there the whole time. He has been here but has just sobbed every time I see him. My younger son suprisingly stayed over there for two nights. He hasn't stayed there in years. He came home last night just exhausted. Seems nothing I said was the right thing. He was ill and snippy with me. Very unlike him to me. His father had written a hand written will. He pretty much said he was leaving everything to the boys but wanted his wife to be able to live in his house as long as she wanted to. ( Ex actually verbalized these words to me prior to his dying). He then says about his chicken houses, that the wife and each son get 33% of them. He just had them built. a couple years ago. I think it is a 20 year contract. Then younger son says wife's sister was making pictures of everything in the house. I just smell trouble. Anyway I told him to ask the wife why she was doing that and suggested he take a few himself. Older son is in no shape to have these conversations. Not sure the other is either. I questioned the validity of a hand written will and told him I would make an appointment with my lawyer for them to protect their rights.He got very upset that I wondered if it was legal. I told him I wasn't sure. Finally I just told him I was going to let him go to bed. In a while he came back up. I explained that I was coming to the funeral but wasn't going through the line. He asked why I wasn't going through the line. I said I really got the cold shoulder at the hospital and wasn't sure they would want me to. He got upset again and just said I'm going to bed. This son never gets mad at me and is usually very open. I feel I"m in new territory. Nothing I say is right. Just needing to vent. This is so stressful.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Billiesue, post: 729344, member: 21852"] Well I could but I feel like the last person sis and mom want to hear from is me. Me son who was living with him, (and hooked on pot), has stayed over there the whole time. He has been here but has just sobbed every time I see him. My younger son suprisingly stayed over there for two nights. He hasn't stayed there in years. He came home last night just exhausted. Seems nothing I said was the right thing. He was ill and snippy with me. Very unlike him to me. His father had written a hand written will. He pretty much said he was leaving everything to the boys but wanted his wife to be able to live in his house as long as she wanted to. ( Ex actually verbalized these words to me prior to his dying). He then says about his chicken houses, that the wife and each son get 33% of them. He just had them built. a couple years ago. I think it is a 20 year contract. Then younger son says wife's sister was making pictures of everything in the house. I just smell trouble. Anyway I told him to ask the wife why she was doing that and suggested he take a few himself. Older son is in no shape to have these conversations. Not sure the other is either. I questioned the validity of a hand written will and told him I would make an appointment with my lawyer for them to protect their rights.He got very upset that I wondered if it was legal. I told him I wasn't sure. Finally I just told him I was going to let him go to bed. In a while he came back up. I explained that I was coming to the funeral but wasn't going through the line. He asked why I wasn't going through the line. I said I really got the cold shoulder at the hospital and wasn't sure they would want me to. He got upset again and just said I'm going to bed. This son never gets mad at me and is usually very open. I feel I"m in new territory. Nothing I say is right. Just needing to vent. This is so stressful. [/QUOTE]
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