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Teen son's father dies.
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<blockquote data-quote="Billiesue" data-source="post: 729459" data-attributes="member: 21852"><p>SWOT-Thanks. I appreciate it. I have pulled myself together. I am going to work behind the scenes. I know it will come down to me figuring out this mess for them.. I am going to the lawyer alone. I have a picture of this will. When they ask me I will have information for them. I will not mention it to them again unless they ask me. I wonder if son isn't a bit angry at me for allowing the estrangement. I don't know. But I believed then and now it was in his best interest. I know my older son and feel sure it's a matter of time before he and step mom will butt heads. I have a meeting at the courthouse today with the clerk of court. There is something about claiming 5000.00 for minor child. I didn't know about this. She had told me. I'm just going to give young son space. Those boys know I love them. They'll be back around. It is amazing to me that while I feel empathy for my ex's family. And how he and I had a real hate, get along ok relationship most of the time. I could always pick up the phone and call him. I would update him on achievements of my younger son and we would talk and argue about my older addicted son. The sudden disappearance of the ability to talk to him. I myself am surprised by my grief. I have had flashbacks for days of our young married life. More bad times than good, but flashbacks nonetheless. He would have made fun of me saying this. Can't really express this to current spouse. Feel it would make him feel less. He certainly is not. He is my rock.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Billiesue, post: 729459, member: 21852"] SWOT-Thanks. I appreciate it. I have pulled myself together. I am going to work behind the scenes. I know it will come down to me figuring out this mess for them.. I am going to the lawyer alone. I have a picture of this will. When they ask me I will have information for them. I will not mention it to them again unless they ask me. I wonder if son isn't a bit angry at me for allowing the estrangement. I don't know. But I believed then and now it was in his best interest. I know my older son and feel sure it's a matter of time before he and step mom will butt heads. I have a meeting at the courthouse today with the clerk of court. There is something about claiming 5000.00 for minor child. I didn't know about this. She had told me. I'm just going to give young son space. Those boys know I love them. They'll be back around. It is amazing to me that while I feel empathy for my ex's family. And how he and I had a real hate, get along ok relationship most of the time. I could always pick up the phone and call him. I would update him on achievements of my younger son and we would talk and argue about my older addicted son. The sudden disappearance of the ability to talk to him. I myself am surprised by my grief. I have had flashbacks for days of our young married life. More bad times than good, but flashbacks nonetheless. He would have made fun of me saying this. Can't really express this to current spouse. Feel it would make him feel less. He certainly is not. He is my rock. [/QUOTE]
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