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<blockquote data-quote="CH2017" data-source="post: 719521" data-attributes="member: 22283"><p>Thank you. He's does, we are on the exact same page and both just as shocked and heartbroken. We've spent countless hours researching, seeking advice, discussing. Conversations with the bio mom get us no where and before we even mentioned anything when we called once, she flat out said she absolutely will not consider them moving back in with her. We even asked if she'd take them just over the entire summer for a change of environment for a bit and she refused to take them any longer than the custody agreement said she could have them for (2 weeks). I understand what you're saying and 100% agree I just don't know how. As far as being physical, that has only ever been with their father. In fact one time, I was just so fired up, that I stupidly did stand in the door way to prevent them from walking out on me and it worked and they just went off to their room in that instance. Seeing how they reacted to their dad doing it though has scarede and being pregnant, that's just not a risk I'm willing to take on again. We've looked into behavioral correction schools and going through the legal system like you suggested. It's so hard to know what to do or if you're jumping 5 steps ahead because being in the thick of it, you can't be objective. We don't physically force them to do anything, one reason being, typically that's not something we really believe in doing, although this isn't a typical situation anymore, but also I think it would encite a full blown attack on my husband from them. I'm worried the only real option for help is going to have to get the Law involved. I just really don't want it to come to that. We live on base, so I don't even know how that would work because regular law enforcement do not have jurisdiction here, it's the base police that do. I don't know if they can help in the same way or not. Our healthcare is set up similarly, as long as we find someone in network with our insurance, we can go see them just as a civilian would.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="CH2017, post: 719521, member: 22283"] Thank you. He's does, we are on the exact same page and both just as shocked and heartbroken. We've spent countless hours researching, seeking advice, discussing. Conversations with the bio mom get us no where and before we even mentioned anything when we called once, she flat out said she absolutely will not consider them moving back in with her. We even asked if she'd take them just over the entire summer for a change of environment for a bit and she refused to take them any longer than the custody agreement said she could have them for (2 weeks). I understand what you're saying and 100% agree I just don't know how. As far as being physical, that has only ever been with their father. In fact one time, I was just so fired up, that I stupidly did stand in the door way to prevent them from walking out on me and it worked and they just went off to their room in that instance. Seeing how they reacted to their dad doing it though has scarede and being pregnant, that's just not a risk I'm willing to take on again. We've looked into behavioral correction schools and going through the legal system like you suggested. It's so hard to know what to do or if you're jumping 5 steps ahead because being in the thick of it, you can't be objective. We don't physically force them to do anything, one reason being, typically that's not something we really believe in doing, although this isn't a typical situation anymore, but also I think it would encite a full blown attack on my husband from them. I'm worried the only real option for help is going to have to get the Law involved. I just really don't want it to come to that. We live on base, so I don't even know how that would work because regular law enforcement do not have jurisdiction here, it's the base police that do. I don't know if they can help in the same way or not. Our healthcare is set up similarly, as long as we find someone in network with our insurance, we can go see them just as a civilian would. [/QUOTE]
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