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<blockquote data-quote="BloodiedButUnbowed" data-source="post: 719532" data-attributes="member: 13303"><p>We understand that this is a very sensitive topic. Everyone here truly does mean well even if we are a little harsh at times. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p></p><p>Is your H looking into terminating bio mom's parental rights entirely? If she is not willing to go to that extent then it seems to me she has no right to draw the line in the sand that she will never ever take them back. Perhaps your H should see what the custody court says about it. </p><p></p><p>If she signs away her rights, then you and H get to make all the decisions which may be in the boys' best interests.</p><p></p><p>Have they ever seen a counselor before? Why did their mom keep the sister but not the twins? If I remember right the sister is acting out as well?</p><p></p><p>Did these boys suddenly change when they hit their tweens, or were there always signs of trouble?</p><p></p><p>I am so happy for you that you and your H are on the same page. In my situation, my (same sex) wife and her ex husband are not on the same page and never have been, and this has caused a lot of chaos and tragedy for my two stepsons.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BloodiedButUnbowed, post: 719532, member: 13303"] We understand that this is a very sensitive topic. Everyone here truly does mean well even if we are a little harsh at times. :) Is your H looking into terminating bio mom's parental rights entirely? If she is not willing to go to that extent then it seems to me she has no right to draw the line in the sand that she will never ever take them back. Perhaps your H should see what the custody court says about it. If she signs away her rights, then you and H get to make all the decisions which may be in the boys' best interests. Have they ever seen a counselor before? Why did their mom keep the sister but not the twins? If I remember right the sister is acting out as well? Did these boys suddenly change when they hit their tweens, or were there always signs of trouble? I am so happy for you that you and your H are on the same page. In my situation, my (same sex) wife and her ex husband are not on the same page and never have been, and this has caused a lot of chaos and tragedy for my two stepsons. [/QUOTE]
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