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<blockquote data-quote="Coookie" data-source="post: 8535" data-attributes="member: 1587"><p>Sharon,</p><p></p><p>My heart just broke reading your thread. :frown: You are in such fear and pain and I have been there...a very scary and lonely place to be. :frown:</p><p></p><p>I'm glad you came back to the board. We do care. </p><p></p><p>When you start thinking about the fact that your difficult child may end up in jail because of his actions, and you start feeling guilty because you may be the one who will report him, just remember that he is the one who made the choices that landed him wherever he ends up...OK???????</p><p></p><p>I have had to do that a lot lately and believe me each time I tell myself that it gets easier to let go of the guilt, or the thoughts that if only I had done/said something different.</p><p></p><p>Your difficult child is making some really bad choices, as mine did..but...they are his to make..not yours to suffer for.</p><p></p><p>Do what you need to do to protect and take care of yourself and your easy child. Seems your difficult child will have to learn on his own now..as mine will. :frown:</p><p></p><p>Sending you many gentle hugs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Coookie, post: 8535, member: 1587"] Sharon, My heart just broke reading your thread. [img]:frown:[/img] You are in such fear and pain and I have been there...a very scary and lonely place to be. [img]:frown:[/img] I'm glad you came back to the board. We do care. When you start thinking about the fact that your difficult child may end up in jail because of his actions, and you start feeling guilty because you may be the one who will report him, just remember that he is the one who made the choices that landed him wherever he ends up...OK??????? I have had to do that a lot lately and believe me each time I tell myself that it gets easier to let go of the guilt, or the thoughts that if only I had done/said something different. Your difficult child is making some really bad choices, as mine did..but...they are his to make..not yours to suffer for. Do what you need to do to protect and take care of yourself and your easy child. Seems your difficult child will have to learn on his own now..as mine will. [img]:frown:[/img] Sending you many gentle hugs. [/QUOTE]
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