This is a vent, more than anything. Hopefully, I will be in a place some day where I can offer help and support more than needing it. Quick background: Saturday gfg32 flew back to town where he and his exgf lived. She has a restraining order on him. Exgf called me Saturday, saying gfg32 told her husband and I were getting him a room for a couple days and he had ticket. I told her that was not true about the room. She later texted, I am so stressed. I don't know what to do. I texted back, One option is not to meet him at the airport. There are probably other options. That was the last communication she and I had. I had stopped communicating with her a few days before, but thought it was important to let her know gfg32 was not being honest about the room. husband and I were hoping he would not go, figuring he will end up in jail. Last night, husband and I were sitting in front of the fireplace, having a good time. husband gets two texts from some Anonymous texting place - from gfg32, along these lines. Hey (bad compound word that begins with an "a"), Guess you could predict I wouldn't stay here when your wife told girlfriend to not pick me up at the airport. Or, when she told girlfriend to call police if she saw me. Well, girlfriend, my real family, doesn't want that. The second text was That place I told you to go doesn't exist. (gfg32 told his dad to go to hell the last time they spoke on phone). husband texted back, "We love you. Please go to the hospital". husband has a dr appointment this morning to check his BiPolar (BP) after three months on Lisinopril. The #'s may not be so great. No questions really, just wanted to share. It is getting a tad easier. More mad than sad lately.