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<blockquote data-quote="LittleDudesMom" data-source="post: 60534" data-attributes="member: 805"><p>Bette,</p><p></p><p>Your pain and grief are deep and something that those of us who have not lost a child cannot really fathom. Your decision to go to therapy is a smart one. A friend of my easy child's was killed last summer, an only child, and his parents started grief counceling the week after he died. I think it was instrumental in thier lives because it helped them understanding that we all process our grief on a different time table and in a different way.</p><p></p><p>If you cannot pray right now, God understands. You will come to a time when you will realize, through your faith, that God did not take your son, an awful human did. </p><p></p><p>Find your comfort and strenght where you can and don't let anyone tell you what is right or wrong for you to do. </p><p></p><p>In time I hope you take some comfort in the knowledge that your boy made such strides in recent years, was loving life, and touched many others. That is his gift to you. His abilty to have moved forward regardless of the issues he dealt with. He was rising above. He will serve as an example and will be remembered for the all the good things he was able to do for himself and for others.</p><p></p><p>In time I pray your heart lurch a little less when you think of yoru boy and some small part of that heart remember with joy the gift you had in him. </p><p></p><p>Prayers and hugs,</p><p>Sharon</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="LittleDudesMom, post: 60534, member: 805"] Bette, Your pain and grief are deep and something that those of us who have not lost a child cannot really fathom. Your decision to go to therapy is a smart one. A friend of my easy child's was killed last summer, an only child, and his parents started grief counceling the week after he died. I think it was instrumental in thier lives because it helped them understanding that we all process our grief on a different time table and in a different way. If you cannot pray right now, God understands. You will come to a time when you will realize, through your faith, that God did not take your son, an awful human did. Find your comfort and strenght where you can and don't let anyone tell you what is right or wrong for you to do. In time I hope you take some comfort in the knowledge that your boy made such strides in recent years, was loving life, and touched many others. That is his gift to you. His abilty to have moved forward regardless of the issues he dealt with. He was rising above. He will serve as an example and will be remembered for the all the good things he was able to do for himself and for others. In time I pray your heart lurch a little less when you think of yoru boy and some small part of that heart remember with joy the gift you had in him. Prayers and hugs, Sharon [/QUOTE]
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