:snowing:I love all the Christmas cards I've gotten from you all so far! THankyouthankyouthankyou. Some have beautiful handwriting, some are just adorable, one has a great photo. I'm a bit shaken by the note from the newcomer on the General bb about her son, who killed someone ... I am going down to look at all the wonderful cards again and relax. They will make me feel better. And I'm going to stare at my difficult child, who is playing a video game he got for his birthday, which he is only allowed to play for an hr, and be thankful that the worst thing he's done today is go over his time limit by 5 min. It's all about perspective.