I had a rough family session with Kanga today. She was trying to sling guilt at me for "abandoning" her and "not wanting me home"..blah blah blah. I was able to acknowledge her feelings and still connect everything back to her choices. I did not get caught up in defending myself!!! I did not let her manipulate the session! Of course, we got nowhere because she thinks her choices are totally fine and all of her violence is justified cause people bug her.