thanks to those who replied. i have tried a signature but i am unsure of the abbreviations used on the site could someone enlighten me eg difficult child so easy child etc thanks
If you check out the FAQ, upper left part of the screen, it will give you a full breakdown of the abbreviations. difficult child = Gift from God, our challenging kiddos. easy child = perfect child (tongue in cheek) or at least not the kid that brought us here in the first place.