This site is such a big help and I just want to thank the folks who have made this possible. I have been so alone with the parent and adhd relationship and went through the school systems all alone. When I had the trouble last fall and found this place of refuge and all these others with their own struggles it was like waking up a fish amoung fish! I have been coming here alot since and the encouragement and the insight and the ideas that are as plentiful as can be is so new and comforting and differant than that long befor time when it was just my imagination and determination and the whole everchanging world on the otherside of the front door. So thank you all everyone behind the anonomous names. You know who you are...and you are unique and caring and it is so good to have this place to turn.