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the ball is in his court??
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 720260" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>thank you sam.</p><p></p><p>actually, i think he wants to avoid work, commitment and respinsibility. at least part of him does. i think coming home--about 2.5 hours from where he is--is an escape valve. but i think he is ambivalent. </p><p></p><p>unless he had concrete plans that make sense i think i would be enabling him to let him come home.</p><p></p><p> for what? that is for him to come up with. a plan. in place. doing it. </p><p></p><p>i think that must be why he waited weeks to call me. he is torn too. i think he wants independence without responsibilty beyond minute to minute, day to day.</p><p></p><p>personally. i do not think he has the means to take on a $700 rent obligation. he could if he could sustain full time work. but i think this expectation is unreasonable at this point.</p><p></p><p>i guess i am ambivalent too.</p><p></p><p>thank you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 720260, member: 18958"] thank you sam. actually, i think he wants to avoid work, commitment and respinsibility. at least part of him does. i think coming home--about 2.5 hours from where he is--is an escape valve. but i think he is ambivalent. unless he had concrete plans that make sense i think i would be enabling him to let him come home. for what? that is for him to come up with. a plan. in place. doing it. i think that must be why he waited weeks to call me. he is torn too. i think he wants independence without responsibilty beyond minute to minute, day to day. personally. i do not think he has the means to take on a $700 rent obligation. he could if he could sustain full time work. but i think this expectation is unreasonable at this point. i guess i am ambivalent too. thank you. [/QUOTE]
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