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<blockquote data-quote="New Leaf" data-source="post: 753790" data-attributes="member: 19522"><p>To the t. His grandfather and his father are violent bullies. His uncles are brutal. They don’t discuss, they yell. Hit. </p><p>My younger grandson says his brother is acting this way because he knows he won’t “get lickins.”</p><p>That was his boundary with them. I told him that he would have to learn to self regulate. Self control. We started out okay, but the “honeymoon” stage is over. I do realize as well that therapy brings up painful memories and feelings they all tried to bury to be able to survive. This is probably a big part of his acting out. Reopened old wounds that never really healed. It is complicated and sad.</p><p>But I have not given up hope for him.</p><p>Thank you Crayola.</p><p>Leafy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="New Leaf, post: 753790, member: 19522"] To the t. His grandfather and his father are violent bullies. His uncles are brutal. They don’t discuss, they yell. Hit. My younger grandson says his brother is acting this way because he knows he won’t “get lickins.” That was his boundary with them. I told him that he would have to learn to self regulate. Self control. We started out okay, but the “honeymoon” stage is over. I do realize as well that therapy brings up painful memories and feelings they all tried to bury to be able to survive. This is probably a big part of his acting out. Reopened old wounds that never really healed. It is complicated and sad. But I have not given up hope for him. Thank you Crayola. Leafy [/QUOTE]
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