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The dust settles, but where?
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<blockquote data-quote="wisernow" data-source="post: 724918" data-attributes="member: 20373"><p>My dear BBU. I concur with what everyone else has said. You deserve a life of happiness and safety. Maybe a therapist can help you get over your fears of being alone etc. </p><p>I too struggled with years as to whether or not to leave my marriage. When I finally took the leap, frightened as I was, I knew I would survive. And in the months after I realized how like that rabbit in a pot, I did not realize how dysfunctional my life had become until I stepped away. The dysfunction had significant impact on my self esteem. Now four years later I am a completely different person and I look back at that time and I regret the time wasted and wondered how I allowed myself to be treated the way I was being treated. You will find your way. Think of yourself again as a young child who was being abused by someone and you were the bystander who could help. Would you allow that to happen? I think not. So please rescue yourself from this very toxic environment. We are all here for you and cyber hugging you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="wisernow, post: 724918, member: 20373"] My dear BBU. I concur with what everyone else has said. You deserve a life of happiness and safety. Maybe a therapist can help you get over your fears of being alone etc. I too struggled with years as to whether or not to leave my marriage. When I finally took the leap, frightened as I was, I knew I would survive. And in the months after I realized how like that rabbit in a pot, I did not realize how dysfunctional my life had become until I stepped away. The dysfunction had significant impact on my self esteem. Now four years later I am a completely different person and I look back at that time and I regret the time wasted and wondered how I allowed myself to be treated the way I was being treated. You will find your way. Think of yourself again as a young child who was being abused by someone and you were the bystander who could help. Would you allow that to happen? I think not. So please rescue yourself from this very toxic environment. We are all here for you and cyber hugging you. [/QUOTE]
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