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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 637873" data-attributes="member: 15801"><p>Thanks everyone... love that not my monkey, not my circus!! I will remember that one!!</p><p></p><p>Thanks MWM.... I did have a very nice day today and really enjoyed myself. </p><p></p><p>I dont think at this point I can or want to change my number and email. I just cant cut off all contact with him. He is not someone who calls and chats all the time... he does tend to only call when he wants something. So I probably wont hear from him for a while....and I start to worry when I dont hear from him... so I think cutting contact would drive me nuts. One thing I have now is that I think the two women he is living with would contact me if something really bad happens and I want them to be able to do that. That gives me some peace of mind if he stays out of contact. So I wont be changing my number but I am also not going to be contacting him much right now either... and if contacts me and starts getting nasty I have no problem just not talking to him. Another big advantage of distance!!</p><p></p><p>And Nancy.... yes worrying about their siblings and their finances etc is too much of a burden I think. I dont want my easy child to have to take care of her brother at all....for many reasons. So we currently have my brother as a trustee. He would be willing to be tough if need be.</p><p></p><p>And it will be interesting to see what he does when he runs out of money.... I am hoping they figure out something without asking us for money!!</p><p></p><p>TL</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 637873, member: 15801"] Thanks everyone... love that not my monkey, not my circus!! I will remember that one!! Thanks MWM.... I did have a very nice day today and really enjoyed myself. I dont think at this point I can or want to change my number and email. I just cant cut off all contact with him. He is not someone who calls and chats all the time... he does tend to only call when he wants something. So I probably wont hear from him for a while....and I start to worry when I dont hear from him... so I think cutting contact would drive me nuts. One thing I have now is that I think the two women he is living with would contact me if something really bad happens and I want them to be able to do that. That gives me some peace of mind if he stays out of contact. So I wont be changing my number but I am also not going to be contacting him much right now either... and if contacts me and starts getting nasty I have no problem just not talking to him. Another big advantage of distance!! And Nancy.... yes worrying about their siblings and their finances etc is too much of a burden I think. I dont want my easy child to have to take care of her brother at all....for many reasons. So we currently have my brother as a trustee. He would be willing to be tough if need be. And it will be interesting to see what he does when he runs out of money.... I am hoping they figure out something without asking us for money!! TL [/QUOTE]
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