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The mystery..it's not good
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<blockquote data-quote="mof" data-source="post: 706361" data-attributes="member: 20533"><p>I could use some positive thoughts please...son tested clean...we are allowing him for a few months to work towards getting his ducks in a row...because right now his probation officer is 2 hrs away. It takes a few months to get papers transferred.</p><p></p><p>He will be looking to move somewhere...he just is not healthy for us. Not violent...not lazy...but lying is something I can't tolerate. He ride a bike to work...I'd feel better if he had a car when he leaves...but I don't know what will happen. I know he has 3 yrs and he could prove himself . But not with us.</p><p></p><p>The most positive thing he has is us and his girlfriend...who is smart enough to give him nothing, except he can stay with her when she can get him...the area is very rural, we have no public transportation. He will put his work before all else..that is his MO...always has been.</p><p></p><p>I'd how I will fare in the next few months of transition...but I'm tired..tired of hauling around the doubt, resentment . Our children are a part of us...but even though I don't think I can be whole with him here. I hate that our area is small..and he works two miles down the street...maybe he will do better on his own..maybe he won't, an life will once again be taken.</p><p></p><p>We can't go there...but it is what it is...we co time he to do what we feel is right in the moment.</p><p></p><p>Thanks mof</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="mof, post: 706361, member: 20533"] I could use some positive thoughts please...son tested clean...we are allowing him for a few months to work towards getting his ducks in a row...because right now his probation officer is 2 hrs away. It takes a few months to get papers transferred. He will be looking to move somewhere...he just is not healthy for us. Not violent...not lazy...but lying is something I can't tolerate. He ride a bike to work...I'd feel better if he had a car when he leaves...but I don't know what will happen. I know he has 3 yrs and he could prove himself . But not with us. The most positive thing he has is us and his girlfriend...who is smart enough to give him nothing, except he can stay with her when she can get him...the area is very rural, we have no public transportation. He will put his work before all else..that is his MO...always has been. I'd how I will fare in the next few months of transition...but I'm tired..tired of hauling around the doubt, resentment . Our children are a part of us...but even though I don't think I can be whole with him here. I hate that our area is small..and he works two miles down the street...maybe he will do better on his own..maybe he won't, an life will once again be taken. We can't go there...but it is what it is...we co time he to do what we feel is right in the moment. Thanks mof [/QUOTE]
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