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The nice lady Stephanie wants me to participate in family meetings....
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<blockquote data-quote="dstc_99" data-source="post: 629389" data-attributes="member: 15473"><p>To be honest I would not go either. This is his twelth stint in the hospital for this and none of your previous visits have done any good. It is time for him to do this for himself not just so he can get you to talk to him. Maybe this is time for a change. Take that step away and let the lovely social worker do the work. You might even agree to telephonic communications or meetings with her without difficult child there. This way she knows you are supportive and can let difficult child know you are being supportive but that you dont want to see him until he has made positive changes above and beyond the changes he made the other 11 times. When and if he acheives levels above where he has been previously you should see them as positive and give them amount of support you feel he deserves.</p><p> </p><p>Do this for yourself. You can't change difficult child and neither can this social worker. UNLESS difficult child wants the change.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="dstc_99, post: 629389, member: 15473"] To be honest I would not go either. This is his twelth stint in the hospital for this and none of your previous visits have done any good. It is time for him to do this for himself not just so he can get you to talk to him. Maybe this is time for a change. Take that step away and let the lovely social worker do the work. You might even agree to telephonic communications or meetings with her without difficult child there. This way she knows you are supportive and can let difficult child know you are being supportive but that you dont want to see him until he has made positive changes above and beyond the changes he made the other 11 times. When and if he acheives levels above where he has been previously you should see them as positive and give them amount of support you feel he deserves. Do this for yourself. You can't change difficult child and neither can this social worker. UNLESS difficult child wants the change. [/QUOTE]
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