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<blockquote data-quote="hearthope" data-source="post: 57550" data-attributes="member: 2389"><p>No, never did I dream my son would be where he is.....</p><p></p><p></p><p>I have had the weekend to think about all of this.</p><p></p><p>In no way am I disrespecting the mom of the difficult child that is with my son, but when I had dealings with her in the past I had to step away because her every waking hour is consumed by her son. She called me before I went to work because she had heard "this", she called me at work because she had heard "that", etc.</p><p></p><p>I know that the po and the sherriff's office already know the story of where the boys are from her.</p><p></p><p>I am totally detaching from the situation. I am protecting myself from the feelings that come with getting involved in my son's destruction. I can't change what has happened. I won't drive to Atlanta searching for him. I don't have any more info for the po other than he called his sis and said he was with his uncle. I would be asked to investigate and see if I could find him, that is what has happened every time in the past.</p><p></p><p>I was the one that couldn't sleep, I was the one that was consumed with worry and fear. I was the one addicted to finding him and fixing him.</p><p></p><p>I have done all I can do. I have to take care of myself. What happens will happen without my involvement.</p><p></p><p>I won't call or see the po tomorrow.</p><p></p><p>I can only change myself, so I am taking a leap and trying to change myself and keep detaching...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearthope, post: 57550, member: 2389"] No, never did I dream my son would be where he is..... I have had the weekend to think about all of this. In no way am I disrespecting the mom of the difficult child that is with my son, but when I had dealings with her in the past I had to step away because her every waking hour is consumed by her son. She called me before I went to work because she had heard "this", she called me at work because she had heard "that", etc. I know that the po and the sherriff's office already know the story of where the boys are from her. I am totally detaching from the situation. I am protecting myself from the feelings that come with getting involved in my son's destruction. I can't change what has happened. I won't drive to Atlanta searching for him. I don't have any more info for the po other than he called his sis and said he was with his uncle. I would be asked to investigate and see if I could find him, that is what has happened every time in the past. I was the one that couldn't sleep, I was the one that was consumed with worry and fear. I was the one addicted to finding him and fixing him. I have done all I can do. I have to take care of myself. What happens will happen without my involvement. I won't call or see the po tomorrow. I can only change myself, so I am taking a leap and trying to change myself and keep detaching... [/QUOTE]
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