Im a Believer
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I have a 4 year old in my childcare that I have watched since she was 6 weeks old ~
She has always been a handful - but I chalked that up to her parents. Her dad is almost 50 and this is his first child, the mother 40 something but this is her second marriage and her other child from previous marriage is older so this is like her first child.
Needless to say - this child is the PRINCESS ~
She has always been defiant for her parents when they dropped off- picked up.
She has always obeyed me but the past few months she is getting more and more difiant with me and a few weeks ago at rest time she had a BM in her pants and then threw it all over the place.
When she is told to do something she makes faces at me and smartly says NO!
She is hitting the other children and is constantly in time out ~ by the way - A joke-but she is not my child so I can not appropraitely discipline ~
I have talked with the parents and requested they pay for my carpet to be cleaned that had been attackedby her feces ~ Which they did.
They make excuse after excuse for her - "she is tired ~ she is this - she is that - she is so sorry for her behaviour" ~ But, nothing changes.
It would be easy to just give this family notice to leave my childcare -but, I really care about this little girl - as I said I have had her since she was born ~
Any opinions on what is wrong ~
Thanks ~
She has always been a handful - but I chalked that up to her parents. Her dad is almost 50 and this is his first child, the mother 40 something but this is her second marriage and her other child from previous marriage is older so this is like her first child.
Needless to say - this child is the PRINCESS ~
She has always been defiant for her parents when they dropped off- picked up.
She has always obeyed me but the past few months she is getting more and more difiant with me and a few weeks ago at rest time she had a BM in her pants and then threw it all over the place.
When she is told to do something she makes faces at me and smartly says NO!
She is hitting the other children and is constantly in time out ~ by the way - A joke-but she is not my child so I can not appropraitely discipline ~
I have talked with the parents and requested they pay for my carpet to be cleaned that had been attackedby her feces ~ Which they did.
They make excuse after excuse for her - "she is tired ~ she is this - she is that - she is so sorry for her behaviour" ~ But, nothing changes.
It would be easy to just give this family notice to leave my childcare -but, I really care about this little girl - as I said I have had her since she was born ~
Any opinions on what is wrong ~
Thanks ~