a change in custody!! Its been rough with difficult child. I hate September. She always goes down hill and quick at the end of August/beginning of September. So, at her last appointment, I said I've had it, I can't deal with this anymore, something/someone has to give. I can't live with her defiance/threats anymore. So.. he said its probably all the jumping around she does and the parents aren't on the same page. HELLO!!! I've been saying that for years! I mean years. Since she was 6, I knew this custody they have wasn't gonna work anymore. So, here we go AGAIN. BM wants only for her to have full custody. Not an option. husband wants 50/50, but with something more settled for difficult child. As it stands, husband has difficult child every Mon night thru Wednesday morning and every other weekend. BM has her every Wednesday night thru Friday morning and the opposite weekend we have her. Very confusing. BM says she can't be away from difficult child for more than 5 days because she misses her so much... therapist is at a loss. We're at a loss. husband obviously doesn't want difficult child to live full time with her BM, but, for the sake of difficult child, it might come to that... therapist told BM and husband psychiatrist wants a new plan before we go back to him on Oct 12. Lovely. If the courts and mediation didn't work before, what makes the psychiatrist think this will? Frustrated..