I was wrong. I posted before difficult child 1 and his family came back to visit that I was very afraid this visit would rekindle the "MY family" BS with DEX's whacky girlfriend. Well, it did. Dex saw Wee three times that weekend. Wee hugged him once. Beyond that, there was next to no interaction between them. DEX text messaged me today. Whackjob girlfriend is having a 21st birthday party for her daughter on Friday. Bring your own meat and beer. And they want Wee. As if working with husband, dealing with the Brooms (yes, more drama there), and the whole showdown with the school isn't enough, now whack job is back. Oh, and she saw me at the store Fri night. husband and Wee went in. I didn't. She went out of her way to come to the car and said "Hey girl. what's going on? How are you???" Then went inside, sought out Wee, and was all over him til husband was ready to leave. It just infuriates me.