Son #2 is getting married in three weeks. They have not yet found someone to perform the ceremony. I ask a friend who's a pastor if he might be able to help the kids out, he says he might, I call #2 with the info. #2 says no, they don't feel they need premarital counseling sessions because they have a great relationship, so that won't work. Huh? If you had a lousy relationship, I'd question why you wanted to get married. #1 doesn't think #2 is making the right decision, they've known each other less than a year, and #2 was just coming off a major heartbreak when they met. Add that to the rest of the family drama going on, with #2's mom who nobody likes, cousin B whose marriage of less than a year blew up in an ugly way (and he's stalking her), other recent breakups, feuds, etc... This is why Hubby and I eloped with only our kids and our moms along.