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<blockquote data-quote="New Leaf" data-source="post: 676505" data-attributes="member: 19522"><p>I have been feeling this way, a lot, too Copa, it is hard, and I know the frustration of it. I think it is a part of this journey. It is not a comfortable feeling. Looking around at all the stuff I need to do, but not having the feeling to do it, yet. What a headache and a tug of war, inside. Ugh.</p><p> I am sorry you are feeling sad Copa. I think you are also being very hard on yourself.</p><p>I look at it more as a way to reinvent yourself, to find yourself. <em>You have great value,</em> and I see you finding this more and more in your posts, and your response to others in need of help. Your scarf buying, may seem like a setback to you, but you have come so far, Copa. I think you are <em>understanding your value</em>, more and more. That you deserve to have things that <em>truly represent you</em>, and you do.</p><p>The video I found of Iris Apfel, in the being kind to ourselves thread, mentioned her "mistakes" and she said, her greatest accomplishments, happened by accident. She had no plan, I found this pretty astounding, for such a successful business woman. I think you are being hard on yourself today Copa, and it will get better. </p><p></p><p>You are already taking steps to reach the order you are seeking in your house. It will take time, but I know you will get there. Me, too. I have been in a state of almost paralysis, through the holidays. I have to get through this, and I think I am, with really, tiny, tiny steps.</p><p>I think you are way further along, than you give yourself credit for. </p><p>You are doing well Copa, and you deserve to wear your Hermes scarf, although I hope it is a pretty one!</p><p>(((Hugs)))</p><p>leafy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="New Leaf, post: 676505, member: 19522"] I have been feeling this way, a lot, too Copa, it is hard, and I know the frustration of it. I think it is a part of this journey. It is not a comfortable feeling. Looking around at all the stuff I need to do, but not having the feeling to do it, yet. What a headache and a tug of war, inside. Ugh. I am sorry you are feeling sad Copa. I think you are also being very hard on yourself. I look at it more as a way to reinvent yourself, to find yourself. [I]You have great value,[/I] and I see you finding this more and more in your posts, and your response to others in need of help. Your scarf buying, may seem like a setback to you, but you have come so far, Copa. I think you are [I]understanding your value[/I], more and more. That you deserve to have things that [I]truly represent you[/I], and you do. The video I found of Iris Apfel, in the being kind to ourselves thread, mentioned her "mistakes" and she said, her greatest accomplishments, happened by accident. She had no plan, I found this pretty astounding, for such a successful business woman. I think you are being hard on yourself today Copa, and it will get better. You are already taking steps to reach the order you are seeking in your house. It will take time, but I know you will get there. Me, too. I have been in a state of almost paralysis, through the holidays. I have to get through this, and I think I am, with really, tiny, tiny steps. I think you are way further along, than you give yourself credit for. You are doing well Copa, and you deserve to wear your Hermes scarf, although I hope it is a pretty one! (((Hugs))) leafy [/QUOTE]
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