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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 687304" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Some kids dont care of they cause two families. I have that with Bart. He has no interest in anyone but me, ex and his son. He has never even tried to have sibling relationships with the others. Junior only knows me and ex. It is his choice.</p><p></p><p>I see my main/core family as husband, sonic, jumper, her boyfriend, princess, her SO, buddha baby and Sonic. Thats the close group that love one another and get together on holidays.</p><p></p><p>The other part is mine alone and I dont see them much due to distance although there is constant, almost daily phone contact. There is Bart and Junior. They are a seperate pair. None of Barts siblings miss him. He was not nice to Princess and barely knows Jumper. He took a real shine to Sonic but he never calls or sees him anymore. Bart is phobic about driving even around St. Louis so he wont drive to Chicago where others can see him and the ignored ones have no interest in driving to see him in St. Louis. I heard Jumper tell her boyfriend, matter of factly, "I have two brothers I dont ever see or care about (Goneboy and Bart.) She means it. It doesnt upset her. She us going to be 20 and they are going to be 39. She never really knew them and neither tried to know her.</p><p></p><p>Unlike some, I am content with my core family...hubby, Sonic, Jumper and SO, princess and family...thay warm my heart. Bart is a bonus to me on the side with Junior, but he is not a part of core family.Goneboy? Stopped caring long ago. Not a part at all.</p><p></p><p>I love when core family are all together. Its almost orgasmic (I know...gross). But I feel so warm and cozy when we are all together.</p><p></p><p>Anyhow, I am fine with things as they are. I do love Bart and Junior tons but accept his staying apart without feeling sorrow. It is truly his loss, but he doesnt see it that way and his perception of his life matters, not mine of his. He truly is fine apart and with Junior apart. I respect his choice. It is not my decision. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite2" alt=";)" title="Wink ;)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=";)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 687304, member: 1550"] Some kids dont care of they cause two families. I have that with Bart. He has no interest in anyone but me, ex and his son. He has never even tried to have sibling relationships with the others. Junior only knows me and ex. It is his choice. I see my main/core family as husband, sonic, jumper, her boyfriend, princess, her SO, buddha baby and Sonic. Thats the close group that love one another and get together on holidays. The other part is mine alone and I dont see them much due to distance although there is constant, almost daily phone contact. There is Bart and Junior. They are a seperate pair. None of Barts siblings miss him. He was not nice to Princess and barely knows Jumper. He took a real shine to Sonic but he never calls or sees him anymore. Bart is phobic about driving even around St. Louis so he wont drive to Chicago where others can see him and the ignored ones have no interest in driving to see him in St. Louis. I heard Jumper tell her boyfriend, matter of factly, "I have two brothers I dont ever see or care about (Goneboy and Bart.) She means it. It doesnt upset her. She us going to be 20 and they are going to be 39. She never really knew them and neither tried to know her. Unlike some, I am content with my core family...hubby, Sonic, Jumper and SO, princess and family...thay warm my heart. Bart is a bonus to me on the side with Junior, but he is not a part of core family.Goneboy? Stopped caring long ago. Not a part at all. I love when core family are all together. Its almost orgasmic (I know...gross). But I feel so warm and cozy when we are all together. Anyhow, I am fine with things as they are. I do love Bart and Junior tons but accept his staying apart without feeling sorrow. It is truly his loss, but he doesnt see it that way and his perception of his life matters, not mine of his. He truly is fine apart and with Junior apart. I respect his choice. It is not my decision. ;) [/QUOTE]
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