Tiredof33
Active Member
I detest the drama and many of my family members thrive on it. My sister called me yesterday to ask me if I had seen what my 34yo difficult child posted about her son on facebook, and why did he post it.
I told her I rarely go on facebook - just to look at the pics the younger ones post - and I had not seen it. Of course she has to tell me about it.
My difficult child posted on facebook that his cuz was a deadbeat dad and of course the cuz retaliated. I told my sis I did not post it and I was not getting involved in the drama between two 34yo adults. But what I did not like was the cuz posting that my son was just like me, and not in a good way. I did not say that to anyone BECAUSE they want the entire family and friends to take sides and get involved. AND MANY OF THEM HAVE!!
I remember a counselor telling me to pretend I was at a game, sitting in the sidelines, and NOT playing the game, not caring which side wins. As much as I feel my difficult child had to be either drunk, stoned, stupid, or all three, I did not start the war and I refuse to get involved.
We have asked what came first the difficult child, or did the drugs make the difficult child. In my family I have many non drugger difficult children and all are ultimate drama king and queens.
I maybe be the first person to sign up to live on the moon!!! Thanks, I just needed to vent and sympathy. To know that my difficult child may very well continue like this for the rest of my life is hard today. Today I will meditate A LOT!!!
(((hugs for us all)))
I told her I rarely go on facebook - just to look at the pics the younger ones post - and I had not seen it. Of course she has to tell me about it.
My difficult child posted on facebook that his cuz was a deadbeat dad and of course the cuz retaliated. I told my sis I did not post it and I was not getting involved in the drama between two 34yo adults. But what I did not like was the cuz posting that my son was just like me, and not in a good way. I did not say that to anyone BECAUSE they want the entire family and friends to take sides and get involved. AND MANY OF THEM HAVE!!
I remember a counselor telling me to pretend I was at a game, sitting in the sidelines, and NOT playing the game, not caring which side wins. As much as I feel my difficult child had to be either drunk, stoned, stupid, or all three, I did not start the war and I refuse to get involved.
We have asked what came first the difficult child, or did the drugs make the difficult child. In my family I have many non drugger difficult children and all are ultimate drama king and queens.
I maybe be the first person to sign up to live on the moon!!! Thanks, I just needed to vent and sympathy. To know that my difficult child may very well continue like this for the rest of my life is hard today. Today I will meditate A LOT!!!
(((hugs for us all)))