So are in The state my son is and where I grew up. He asked us to come visit so we will be visiting him this weekend, I am both excited and nervous. It seems like he is doing ok and he is not good at pretending to do well when he is not. But this visit will give a real life sense of how he is doing. I just hope I am not disappointed....and I want to not let him get to me if he is a jerk.....and stay detached from his journey whatever it is. As we say no matter what it's not my monkey, not my circus!