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Thinking about the collateral damage
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<blockquote data-quote="dstc_99" data-source="post: 633258" data-attributes="member: 15473"><p>I am fighting this right now. I think I am almost afraid to get too attached to my easy child who lord help me is bound and determined to be the weird kid in school. LOL</p><p> </p><p>I don't ignore her but I have a hard time letting go of my boundaries and really being the mom I want to be. Mainly because every time I show weakness around difficult child something blows up. I want to bond more with easy child but I also realize that she is now 14 and probably doesn't want to bond with me because its just not cool at 14. On the other hand easy child is very clingy. Even husband has to tell her to back off and find something to do that we aren't here to entertain her 24 hours a day. The few times I do let down my guard easy child gets clingy to the point where I am uncomfortable. Seriously she weighs around 180lbs and wants to lay on me and hug on me all the time. I feel trapped and clausterphobic at times.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="dstc_99, post: 633258, member: 15473"] I am fighting this right now. I think I am almost afraid to get too attached to my easy child who lord help me is bound and determined to be the weird kid in school. LOL I don't ignore her but I have a hard time letting go of my boundaries and really being the mom I want to be. Mainly because every time I show weakness around difficult child something blows up. I want to bond more with easy child but I also realize that she is now 14 and probably doesn't want to bond with me because its just not cool at 14. On the other hand easy child is very clingy. Even husband has to tell her to back off and find something to do that we aren't here to entertain her 24 hours a day. The few times I do let down my guard easy child gets clingy to the point where I am uncomfortable. Seriously she weighs around 180lbs and wants to lay on me and hug on me all the time. I feel trapped and clausterphobic at times. [/QUOTE]
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