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Third time is NOT the charm
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<blockquote data-quote="A dad" data-source="post: 693943" data-attributes="member: 18668"><p>You really get 1000 dollars a month working at fast food? </p><p>Did he payed any rent while living with you?</p><p>This is the reason why is bad for adult children to live with their parents you have expectations of them they will not reach them then conflict will arose. Now I know that affording rent and saving money is not a possibility in your early 20's for most young people but you could live with flat mates and will help a lot in saving money. Which he does now. Perhaps is for the best as a flat mate does not care about your future so he can live the life he wants no matter how destructive it is it will be bad for him not for you.</p><p>I can not stress how bad it is for adult children to live their parents now do not get me wrong it depends on the culture you will not see latin and slavic cultures having so big struggles with their children living with them its as their learned from a young age to tolerate way more things about family members. </p><p>Here the oldest or the youngest depending on the part of the country lives with their parents until well the parents or them die taking care of each other. We have little to no old people homes and the ones we have are terrible and somebody has to take care of our parents when their old so we developed a culture where we tolerate a lot from our children.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="A dad, post: 693943, member: 18668"] You really get 1000 dollars a month working at fast food? Did he payed any rent while living with you? This is the reason why is bad for adult children to live with their parents you have expectations of them they will not reach them then conflict will arose. Now I know that affording rent and saving money is not a possibility in your early 20's for most young people but you could live with flat mates and will help a lot in saving money. Which he does now. Perhaps is for the best as a flat mate does not care about your future so he can live the life he wants no matter how destructive it is it will be bad for him not for you. I can not stress how bad it is for adult children to live their parents now do not get me wrong it depends on the culture you will not see latin and slavic cultures having so big struggles with their children living with them its as their learned from a young age to tolerate way more things about family members. Here the oldest or the youngest depending on the part of the country lives with their parents until well the parents or them die taking care of each other. We have little to no old people homes and the ones we have are terrible and somebody has to take care of our parents when their old so we developed a culture where we tolerate a lot from our children. [/QUOTE]
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