husband and I have plans tonight to go out to dinner with friends WITHOUT KIDS ! We are long overdue for night out and are very excited. difficult child is such a PITA and is trying to ruin it ! He has moaned and groaned all day about how he is not staying home with our babysitter and he is not being bored tonight (afterall it is Saturday night) I am so mad right now and could kick him in the pants ! We are definetly going and he can whine all he wants !