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<blockquote data-quote="elizabrary" data-source="post: 747053" data-attributes="member: 11235"><p>Wow- you're really going through it right now. Remember you can't make him do anything. He has to be willing to get into treatment, stop using drug, comply with his medications, etc. My daughter is super irrational when she's not medication compliant for her depression and anxiety and then tries to self-medicate with alcohol. She has a hair-trigger temper and you never know what will set her off. I strongly believe you should not let him move back into your house. He's an adult and he has to figure this out for himself. If your love and assistance were enough he would be healthy by now, but that's not the case. I had to put my daughter out of my house when my granddaughter was a baby because she refused to follow the rules agreed upon. She floundered for a few years and still has ups and downs. But she's much more self-reliant now and much less likely to blame me or her father when things go wrong in her life. Although it stressed me out like crazy worrying about her and the baby I think that was the best thing for her. She learned she could take care of herself and her daughter and she could improve her situation if she chose to. Sending peace your way. I know how awful this stuff is.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="elizabrary, post: 747053, member: 11235"] Wow- you're really going through it right now. Remember you can't make him do anything. He has to be willing to get into treatment, stop using drug, comply with his medications, etc. My daughter is super irrational when she's not medication compliant for her depression and anxiety and then tries to self-medicate with alcohol. She has a hair-trigger temper and you never know what will set her off. I strongly believe you should not let him move back into your house. He's an adult and he has to figure this out for himself. If your love and assistance were enough he would be healthy by now, but that's not the case. I had to put my daughter out of my house when my granddaughter was a baby because she refused to follow the rules agreed upon. She floundered for a few years and still has ups and downs. But she's much more self-reliant now and much less likely to blame me or her father when things go wrong in her life. Although it stressed me out like crazy worrying about her and the baby I think that was the best thing for her. She learned she could take care of herself and her daughter and she could improve her situation if she chose to. Sending peace your way. I know how awful this stuff is. [/QUOTE]
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