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<blockquote data-quote="RN0441" data-source="post: 747061" data-attributes="member: 15032"><p>Yes it doesn't make any sense at all to us. How can it? It's insane and I find it truly disgusting and not anything I want anything to do with. I will never never understand it.</p><p></p><p>In truth, I don't want to deal with any of it. My mother was an alcoholic when I was a child and I feel so much of the same feelings with our son that I felt then. I honestly made a pact with myself as a child that I would not ever live like that again. And it is my son that has brought these long buried feelings up to the surface. I feel so cheated in so many ways.</p><p></p><p>I think the determination to destroy and blame is part of the addiction. That make me sad and want to go into save mode but been there/done that and it does nothing good for anyone involved.</p><p></p><p>I do think you are doing the right thing by NOT letting him live with you. If you do, this will NEVER END.</p><p></p><p>Our son is with us again after a 13 month program. He is doing fine. Not perfect but fine. I cannot wait until he is out on his own to be honest. I cannot wait for that day.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="RN0441, post: 747061, member: 15032"] Yes it doesn't make any sense at all to us. How can it? It's insane and I find it truly disgusting and not anything I want anything to do with. I will never never understand it. In truth, I don't want to deal with any of it. My mother was an alcoholic when I was a child and I feel so much of the same feelings with our son that I felt then. I honestly made a pact with myself as a child that I would not ever live like that again. And it is my son that has brought these long buried feelings up to the surface. I feel so cheated in so many ways. I think the determination to destroy and blame is part of the addiction. That make me sad and want to go into save mode but been there/done that and it does nothing good for anyone involved. I do think you are doing the right thing by NOT letting him live with you. If you do, this will NEVER END. Our son is with us again after a 13 month program. He is doing fine. Not perfect but fine. I cannot wait until he is out on his own to be honest. I cannot wait for that day. [/QUOTE]
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