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<blockquote data-quote="SeekingStrength" data-source="post: 659489" data-attributes="member: 17635"><p>Hi Tired,</p><p></p><p>I sure wish I had answers for you. My Difficult Child is almost certainly dealing with anti social behavior disorder, long history of gas lighting and delusional vilifying of his dad and me. His dad and I have no answers, although we have speculated a <strong>lot.</strong></p><p></p><p>We see this often on this forum, but it.is.what.it.is and you cannot change it for your daughter anymore than husband and I can change it for our son.</p><p></p><p>After more time on this forum, you will see (and probably are already beginning to realize), it really does not matter from whence this came. Our Difficult Child's blaming us helps nothing. They have to decide to change the dynamics. We have absolutely no power or clout in their direction. If we could, we would---a million times over!</p><p></p><p>Keep posting and continue to vent. It can help so much; it has made a world of difference for husband and me. We still have our moments, but are way ahead of where we were two years ago.</p><p></p><p>I am so sorry you have this to deal with and feel for you.</p><p></p><p>SS</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SeekingStrength, post: 659489, member: 17635"] Hi Tired, I sure wish I had answers for you. My Difficult Child is almost certainly dealing with anti social behavior disorder, long history of gas lighting and delusional vilifying of his dad and me. His dad and I have no answers, although we have speculated a [B]lot.[/B] We see this often on this forum, but it.is.what.it.is and you cannot change it for your daughter anymore than husband and I can change it for our son. After more time on this forum, you will see (and probably are already beginning to realize), it really does not matter from whence this came. Our Difficult Child's blaming us helps nothing. They have to decide to change the dynamics. We have absolutely no power or clout in their direction. If we could, we would---a million times over! Keep posting and continue to vent. It can help so much; it has made a world of difference for husband and me. We still have our moments, but are way ahead of where we were two years ago. I am so sorry you have this to deal with and feel for you. SS [/QUOTE]
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