difficult child got dropped off Friday as usual at my school. I was talking with someone and he was talking with my principal. I could tell he was telling her about something that happened during the day from her response. As they got down to my room difficult child went into my room and grabbed a small rubber ball and started bouncing it off the windows in the hallway. The friend I was talking with offered to go talk with him so I could run to the bathroom (she has her own difficult child). When I got over to them he was telling her a story and then told it to me. (He told me it was his worst day of high school ever-only been in hs 4 days-lol)
He explained calmly but said he was very upset. (A bit of a back story, difficult child had come home on Thursday super excited that he was getting a history text book the next day-our district doesn't have many texts before high school and even though he is reading no where near the level of the book he was SUPER excited). He said the aide in his history class wouldn't let him take home the text because difficult child was in Special Education. (He said this in front of other children.) He also told difficult child if he was really good for 5 weeks he could have bring the book home.
difficult child told the same story to all of us and I believe he is telling the truth (by the way, he said he was angry and that was why he was throwing the ball-still not acceptable but at least I understood). This infuriates me to no end. An aide should know better than to say something like this and in front of other kids no less! I know it was really bothering him, heck, it would bother me! When husband got to my school to pick us up he told him about it as well. As we were driving he brought it up several other times. He said he didn't want to be in Special Education any more, that he was the top reader in his reading class and the top math student in his math class (probably not true but even if it is he is reading at a first or second grade level and doing math at the same level). After a bit he changed what he was saying and kept repeating that he was in Special Education because he is so stupid.
It hurt so much to hear him say these things about himself. We tried to counteract what he was saying but he was stuck. The next morning it was still bothering him enough that he told his aunts.
husband and I are furious and will be writing a note and waiting for a response. GRRRRR
He explained calmly but said he was very upset. (A bit of a back story, difficult child had come home on Thursday super excited that he was getting a history text book the next day-our district doesn't have many texts before high school and even though he is reading no where near the level of the book he was SUPER excited). He said the aide in his history class wouldn't let him take home the text because difficult child was in Special Education. (He said this in front of other children.) He also told difficult child if he was really good for 5 weeks he could have bring the book home.
difficult child told the same story to all of us and I believe he is telling the truth (by the way, he said he was angry and that was why he was throwing the ball-still not acceptable but at least I understood). This infuriates me to no end. An aide should know better than to say something like this and in front of other kids no less! I know it was really bothering him, heck, it would bother me! When husband got to my school to pick us up he told him about it as well. As we were driving he brought it up several other times. He said he didn't want to be in Special Education any more, that he was the top reader in his reading class and the top math student in his math class (probably not true but even if it is he is reading at a first or second grade level and doing math at the same level). After a bit he changed what he was saying and kept repeating that he was in Special Education because he is so stupid.
It hurt so much to hear him say these things about himself. We tried to counteract what he was saying but he was stuck. The next morning it was still bothering him enough that he told his aunts.
husband and I are furious and will be writing a note and waiting for a response. GRRRRR